Friday, October 16, 2015

Movie Review - Leap Year

Leap Year is a delightful romantic comedy, starring Amy Adams and Matthew Goode, a gorgeous, sultry British actor seen in The Good Wife and Imitation Game. More fairy tale than reality, the movie is filled with Irish charm and funny "fish-out-of water" scenes where a posh American must maneuver the obstacles of a backward, foreign culture to find her true love.

The story starts out with Adams as a successful New York real estate staging consultant, set on getting a marriage proposal from her stodgy surgeon boyfriend, played by Adam Scott. When he presents her with a pair of diamond earrings instead of an engagement ring, she decides to take matters into her own hands.

Influenced by an Irish family tradition where females are allowed to propose marriage on leap year, Adams follows Scott to a medical conference in Dublin with plans to pop the question herself. But as fate would have it, turbulent weather intervenes, diverting her flight to Cardiff, Wales. In a Planes, Trains, and Automobiles moment, she ends up stranded in the small Welsh town of Dingle with only two days to get to Dublin before February 29th arrives.

Sparks fly when she meets up with local pub owner, Goode, who agrees to drive her to Dublin for a fee. As it turns out, he only has ten days to satisfy his creditors or he risks losing everything. The entire film is a race against time where one obstacle after another keeps Adams further away from her potential fiancé and Goode that much closer to bankruptcy.

A note about Matthew Goode: his stunning good looks and witty charm make the movie work. Adams plays the same character we have seen in most of her other films, but Goode is the spice that makes the film funny and memorable. His goofy mannerisms interplayed with handsome smiles and flashes from his crystal blue eyes are a winning combination. I liked his running jokes where he called her Louis Vuitton suitcase "Louie" and made it a habit to refer to Adams as "Bob." Obviously, the sexual attraction is there, but it is never acted upon, other than a gratuitous scene with a non-opaque shower curtain.

As they begin their road trip in a tiny, sputtering car, Goode hits Adams with the awful truth that this leap year tradition is pure nonsense. Basically, he confronts her with the hard reality that she is in love with a man who is avoiding commitment and has no plans to marry, regardless of her belief in Irish folklore. His brash demeanor sets off a motherlode of fireworks that ignites the animosity between the two, leading to a car crash, robbery, bar fight, and a pair of six hundred dollar high heels in a steaming cow pie, all in quick succession.

But as with all well-tooled romcoms, the relationship soon begins its slow turn, like a ship maneuvering the high seas. Tender moments where Adams helps Goode cook a gourmet meal at a little bed and breakfast build the romance, as she begins to witness his talent in the kitchen and he observes her eye for staging a room and making things beautiful. The chemistry builds when they are forced to share a kiss over dinner, which ignites more fire than either of them would care to admit. His abrupt retreat creates some confusion, making Adams wonder if he is truly interested. But the viewer senses Goode is harboring a secret hurt that prevents him from falling in love. While she questions her commitment for her fiance, Goode questions whether he should give romance a chance with this quirky American girl.

** SPOILER ALERT **

Through a bit of gentle needling, Adams gets Goode to spill the beans and share his sad tale; a typical scenario of a lost love who left him for a best friend. It is a simple but necessary scene that proves to Adams that she has now gained his trust. As one would expect, the relationship moves toward a place where futures can take drastic turns, but then, as timing would dictate, they find themselves in Dublin where Scott awaits. To Adams' shock, he proposes in the hotel lobby in front of Goode, compelling her to give a swift answer. Of course, she gives a resounding "yes" but with less enthusiasm than what she had originally planned. Goode is crushed (as is the viewer) and makes a quick retreat back to his Welsh home.

As Adams returns to New York and resumes her opulent life with Scott, she realizes something is missing. The witty banter and fiery sparks she experienced with Goode are missing from her relationship with this dull man who only thinks of money and self. Before long, Adams realizes she has been duped and that she is about to make a terrible mistake. Taking a chance, she returns to Wales to find Goode running a thriving restaurant. Even though leap year has long passed, she makes the bold move and asks him to spend his life with her before a full house of patrons. I won't give away any more, other than to say that things don't turn out as expected-and yet, they do.

This is a wonderful, little date flick that was released in 2010, but has recently come out on Netflix and found an audience. It is rare for its genre, in that it is fairly clean and void of profanity and gratuitous material. A nice bit of entertainment with the spouse or significant other! Watch and enjoy.

Saturday, October 10, 2015

Fun at Keeneland - Lexington, KY

Horse racing and all things equine are huge in Kentucky, as Rachel is quickly learning. Here she is with some of her college buds enjoying a Saturday at the track. I think she made 3 dollars! She says it is beautiful and so much fun. Can't wait to visit the next time we make our way back to UK.

Sunday, October 4, 2015

UK Parents' Weekend 2015

Bill and I have really fallen in love with the University of Kentucky. We had a great weekend with Rachel and the Ricks family celebrating our kids as they maneuver all the ups and downs of one's freshman year in college. Did some cleaning, vaccuming, dusting, and laundrey (yes), shopped and ate some great meals. Also an exciting (and surprise) football win over EKU in overtime. Go Big Blue! Lastly, a fabulous worship service at Southland Church. Loved it!!

Sunday, September 27, 2015

UGA Parents' Weekend 2015

The day started out rainy, but the skies cleared before kick-off. Great win by the bulldawgs and then a nice visit with Anna, our senior in college. God is really blessing her! Always a great time when we visit our girl!

Monday, September 14, 2015

Movie Review - Spare Parts

George Lopez fans will be delighted with this wonderful little film costarring Marisa Tomei, one of my favorite actresses. Based on a truth, the story is a classic underdog tale set in the Hispanic community of Phoenix, Arizona, where the hard life of immigrant families provides a gloomy backdrop.
Lopez portrays Dr. Fredi Cameron, an unemployed engineer with a broken past who lands a job as a temporary science teacher at Carl Hayden Community High School. Jamie Lee Curtis, the school’s principal (Karen Lowrey), is a hilarious, scene-stealing, no-nonsense administrator who rules with an iron fist, softened by a dry wit and spunky attitude. Even though Cameron isn’t technically qualified for the job, Lowrey gives him a chance to prove himself. Under her limited guidance and with the friendship of Gwen Kolinsky (Tomei), a fellow faculty member, Cameron settles into his new life as a lonely school teacher.
Separate from Lopez’s story is the heart-breaking saga of four Hispanic boys trying to survive in a world where poverty, abuse, harassment from immigration authorities, and stifling generational convictions threaten to hold them down. First, there is, Oscar Vazquez (Carlos PenaVega), a gung-ho ROTC student who dreams of being in the US Army. When his illegal status renders it impossible for him to enlist, he changes course and determines to compete in a underwater robotics event which attracts top colleges from all over the country—most notably, Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT). With Lowrey’s blessing, Cameron agrees to be the faculty mentor and advisor, and the two set out to add three more students to the team.
Enter Lorenzo Santillan (Jose Julian), a mechanics whiz who, unfortunately, uses his expertise to break into cars and other nefarious crimes, Cristian Arcega (David Del Rio), an electronics nerd always on the run from school bullies, and Luis Aranda (Oscar Gutierrez), a gentle giant with a quiet intellect. With a bit of creative persuasion, Cameron convinces the boys to come together and prepare to make a serious effort at competing, despite their lack of family support and financial means. They agree, and the battle begins. Limited funds require resourcefulness which result in the boys coming up with unusual materials to build their machine, hence the title, Spare Parts. This obstacle in the story provides for several funny scenes that make the movie sweet and endearing. In addition, the chemistry between Lopez and Tomei adds a nice bit of levity to the drama.
** SPOILER ALERT **
The main plotlines weave through the lives of Vazquez and Santillan. Vazquez feels like a colossal failure, and therefore, lies to his mother regarding his military enlistment. When he isn’t on the run from rogue immigration officers, he nurtures a fledgling romance with the beautiful Karla (Alexa PenaVega), which provides some hope of happiness. However, without a dramatic turn in his circumstances (such as winning the robotics competition), the viewer is aware Vazquez’s future in the US is very bleak.
Santillan’s story is more heartbreaking because of the blatant unfairness of his circumstances. His alcoholic father, Pablo (a great performance by Esai Morales), prefers his wayward son over Santillan, thinking the younger child’s legal status will guarantee success and thereby raise the family above its dismal situation. In an effort to preserve this plan, Santillan is charged with the duty of being his brother’s keeper, which proves to be an impossible task. His brother’s arrest causes turmoil between father and son, and Santillan is forced to quit the robotics team. Sadly, Pablo is blind to Santillan’s intellect and frequently reinforces his lack of faith in that regard. It is an all too familiar, sad story of a child not receiving the unconditional love of a parent.
Cameron’s cold heart slowly melts as he learns the plight of these four young men and how the unfairness of life threatens to kill their dreams of success. Just as he begins to operate more as loving father than mentor, he gets spooked and considers quitting and taking an engineering job. The boys are devastated but are still determined to compete in the robotics competition. Little do they know, but Cameron is harboring his own tragic loss that has gone unspoken for a very long time.
Eventually, Vazquez and Santillan work through their family woes, and the team becomes more focused than ever. Seeing their newfound commitment, Cameron turns down the engineering job and accompanies the boys to the competition. With the assistance of Lowrey and Kolinsky, the Carl Hayden robotics team makes a momentous entrance into the world of competitive robotics; despite the odds of success, their make-shift contraption built on spare parts and a shoe string budget outshines the state-of-the-art machines entered by top tier schools. Like other great underdog stories, perseverance and faith win the day, and the team is victorious, defeating the figurative Goliath of the competition, MIT. And as an extra bonus, Santillan has the unexpected pleasure of having Pablo attend just in time to see the top award delivered. Definitely a hanky moment!
Spare Parts is an enjoyable, entertaining flick that makes one laugh and touches the heart as well. A fresh side of the immigration issue is shown which sheds some light on the stress illegal status places on good, hard-working families. While the film doesn’t make a political argument per se, the topic was presented, leaving the viewer compassionate for the innocent victims.
Memorable and touching, this gem of a movie is highly recommended for family audiences! Available now at Redbox.

Monday, September 7, 2015

Becoming an Empty Nester

Becoming an empty nester is a truth all of us parents know we must face some day, way off in the future. While changing diapers, preparing meals and snacks, loading grocery carts to the gills, and running the carpool, one never really thinks about life with an empty, quiet home that awaits in 20 years time. But as the clock ticks down, the day finally comes. 

The busy season that preceded it, filled with graduation, orientation, shopping for dorm room decor, and updating the college wardrobe kept this Type A first-born mama's mind at a whir, so that when the quiet came, it seemed abrupt and cruel. Now what to do? The rooms are clean, no need to stock the fridge, the basement is straight, the yard taken care of. . . Time to realize one has entered into a new chapter of life.

There is sadness in leaving the old chapter behind, because I now realize motherhood was my 24/7 job that I loved and am really good at. I know I'll still be called upon from time to time when my kids need help or advice, etc., but it won't be the same. Once you've gone from one life chapter to another, there's no going back.

So I've decided to be excited, thrilled, elated. No more mandatory weekly grocery runs, no more cooking every night, no more incessant laundrey piles, messy rooms, basement furniture covered in snack crumbs, no more dealing with Cobb County schools (which I am grateful for all they did for our kids, btw), no more weekend scheduling around sports games and competitions. Bill and I can go whenever and wherever we want without announcing our departure. We can eat leftovers for days, and we can head off for the weekend at a moment's notice. And we will do it! 

We already have our list of places in the Atlanta area to explore, one being the Marietta Diner. Amazing place. But that's just a small beginning. There's lots more to come - the Lord will lead and guide us into new ventures and callings and wonderful family reunions with our children. I'm beginning to see that the best awaits us!!

Here are some pics of my birthday celebration, Braxton's Marching Chief attire, Rachel with her UK friends, and Anna at Dragon Con. And of course, the wonderful Marietta Diner!!

Saturday, September 5, 2015

Yellow Out for HLH in honor of Cara Seckman

Last night Bill and I were back at Raider Valley watching Walton High beat Lassiter in the second home game of the season. We had just completed a 12 hour car ride where we brought Rachel and two of her UK friends from Lexington, KY to Marietta for the weekend. As a graduated cheerleader, Rachel had the privilege of being out on the field with the current Walton cheer squad to honor Cara.

Still a heartbreaking reality that Cara is gone from this world, but we know that she is with the Lord and that brings us great comfort. She may have tasted an earthly death, but her life did not end in death - it is hidden IN CHRIST!

Being an empty nester is much harder than I expected. Confession: occasional bouts of sadness will overwhelm me, probably because I know a chapter of my life has come to an abrupt close. Every parent realizes that this change is looming before them on the horizon of life, but when it actually happens . . . well, let's just say experience brings with it a fresh dose of revelation!

Last night's game was an emotional time of highs and lows. New chapters in life are always exciting but a little unnerving, especially for type A first-borns such as myself!

Here are some pics from the game last night. I know Cara had a big smile on her face. ☺☺