Friday, November 8, 2013

Senior Night!


Good times at Raider Stadium tonight! Senior night is always a special evening. Weather was good but cold, unlike two years ago when it rained cats and dogs! Proud of our senior drum major. Had grandparents here too from NC. Anna home from UGA - all good!

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Chef Extraordinaire, Charlie Trotter, Remembered

Charlie Trotter: picture courtesy of http://dsc.discovery.com

I was so saddened to hear of the death of Charlie Trotter yesterday - and at such a young age of 54! Having lived in Chicago for six years in the early 90s, I remember his meteoric rise to culinary kingship, long before Food Network launched its slate of famous chefs. My husband and I rented our first apartment off Lincoln Park Avenue, at the corner of Armitage - which was just a short walk to Trotter's eponymous restaurant. Talk about a dining experience! I wasn't a Christian at that time, but I can say that my one night sitting at a coveted table in that small restaurant was as close to a religious experience as I had ever had. I remember it like it was yesterday!

At the time, I was working as a high-powered corporate attorney, doing my best to become a cultured, urban woman of the world. I had never heard of Charlie Trotter, but somehow my mother had learned of him and his unique cooking style, probably through his stint on PBS - plus she is a huge gourmet food lover, having been a worshipper of Julia Child back in the 70s. I did a bit of research and quickly learned that eating at Charlie Trotter's was not an every night occurrence. Reservations had to be made months (and I mean months) in advance and under NO CIRCUMSTANCES would you dare cancel (unless you were literally going into labor - more on that later). Mom's greatest wish was for us all to go out for an evening of fine dining (sans Dad who likes to eat, but could be satisfied with a jar of peanut butter and a handful of crackers), and so I obediently made the all-important reservation. The five of us (Mom, my husband and I, and my two sisters) took the short drive to 816 W Armitage Drive and had the experience of a lifetime!

Dégustation. That word was plastered all over the menu, and I had no idea what it meant. Basically, it is a french term that means the following (thanks to Wikipedia): a careful, appreciative tasting of various foods and focusing on the gustatory system, the senses, high culinary art and good company. Dégustation is more likely to involve sampling small portions of all of a chef's signature dishes in one sitting. Usually consisting of eight or more courses, it may be accompanied by a matching wine degustation which complements each dish.

Now, you must know that I come from the South where a gourmet meal is served family style, meaning the serving dishes are set out on the table or a buffet, and everything is heaped on one plate with the goal of eating as fast as possible through several swallows of sweet tea.Once the plate is licked clean (or sopped up with the remnants of a biscuit), the glutton crawls to the easy chair (or stretches out on the floor) where the top button of the trousers is opened for the digestion to begin - all while watching a family TV show. About an hour later dessert is served - always with ice cream or cool whip. Bedtime is preceded by much belching and a request for antacid or seltzer water. Not so at Charlie Trotter's!

First of all, there were things on the menu I had never seen and never imagined I would put in my mouth, but I took a chance and indulged. Despite the steep menu price (gulp - but Mom was paying!), we all ordered the dégustation and embarked on the most amazing culinary ride imaginable. Eight to nine courses of the most beautifully presented, exquisitely prepared, and delicious dishes that defied anything I could've dreamt of eating! Each dish was like a work of art - just a small portion - but the perfect amount to satisfy, yet leaving you wanting more. Four hours later, with much wine and dessert, all of us found that we were pleasantly full but not stuffed, relaxed but not tipsy, and elated from the climactic experience. I felt as though we had been entertained with our own private symphony conducted by Mozart himself.

When the check came, it was so large that the credit card company called my dad to make sure his card hadn't been stolen - how funny! Dad thought Mom was nuts to spend that kind of money on food when peanut butter and crackers would suffice. But he didn't understand, and still doesn't. It wasn't just the food - it was the experience, the presentation, the extended time it took to savor every gorgeous dish, the ambiance, the notion that we were eating like the kings and queens of old - better even! It is one of the most wonderful gifts my mother has ever given me!

Several years later, Mom wanted to go back - and this time, reserve the coveted table IN THE KITCHEN, where we could watch and breathe the same air as the magical Charlie Trotter! Without hesitation, I made the reservation and the date was set - but alas, our son decided to enter the world a bit early. Boo hoo! Mom always teased him that one day she would take him to Charlie Trotter's and have that celebratory meal in that famous kitchen. But it wasn't meant to be. The restaurant closed some years ago, and now Charlie Trotter is no more.

What a great gift Mr. Trotter gave us that night many years ago. I could tell he put great love and attention in the preparation of every dish and it was certainly appreciated. I will always have fond memories of him and hope that his great passion for the dégustation will be passed on to the next generation of culinary wizards, if it hasn't already.

Charlie Trotter, rest in peace! You will be greatly missed!

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Goodreads Review - Life is Short, I Wish I Was Taller

Caroline Friday's Reviews > Life Is Short, I Wish I Was Taller

 
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This is the cutest, funniest book that had me hee hawing under the covers in the wee hours of the night while my husband tried to sleep! Really, it is a collection of columns written by a modern-day Southern belle who gives the reader a slice of eastern North Carolina life. It wasn't that the details of the stories were necessarily hilarious, it was the voice they were written in that won me over. The author writes in a giggly, zany fashion that works on the emotions from down deep. I found that as I read, the laughter bubbled up from somewhere inside and just came spewing out. Since I am a fellow Southerner, I could appreciate many of the scenarios and life-observations and felt like I had been whisked back to my girlhood home. While I don't know the author personally, we are from the same home town, so I could relate to many of the settings. Basically, a good book for the soul!

Thursday, October 31, 2013

Friday Moments


Anna is home from UGA and it is sooo nice to have all three kids under one roof! Had a great birthday party for Braxton! Nice family time - feeling very blessed!

Halloween Dress-Up at Walton High

My daughter, Rachel, and her friends came up with a cute idea for Halloween dress-up this year: a pumpkin patch. Some dressed as pumpkins and others as cute farm girls. They are adorable! The high school always has fun with this! 

Even though I am not a fan of a Halloween, I do love seeing the interesting non-scary
costumes people come up with AND the cute kids who come to the door for candy - priceless! 

Have a blessed day!






Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Latest Art

My friend's beautiful daughter. 

Monday, October 7, 2013

Parental Guidance


Read my latest movie review on Parental Guidance, an absolutely hilarious movie! At the Movies Christian Fiction Online Magazine.


Fans of Billy Crystal will be delighted with his latest flick, costarring Bette Midler and Marisa Tomei. It truly is one of the best family films I have seen in a very long time! My husband and I thoroughly enjoyed it, crying at some parts and howling with laughter at others. Bette Midler, especially, can be outright hilarious without using raunch and gross-out lines. Hopefully, Hollywood’s current A-list comedic actors will follow her lead and try evoking quality humor without venturing into the world of R ratings.

It always saddens me when I see some of my favorite actors getting older and playing the grandfather role. I still remember Crystal from his When Harry Met Sally days, where he was this adorable little man with a head full of curly hair and wit to match. The wit may still be there, but the hair is a little thinner, and I’m not so sure he could still be described as adorable. Bette, on the other hand, looks fabulous, getting more beautiful as she gets older. I’m amazed at how wonderful she looks and how much energy she exudes on screen.

Now for the story—basically it is about a disgruntled daughter (Marisa Tomei) who reluctantly invites her parents (Crystal and Midler) to babysit her three kids while she and her husband take a much-needed vacation. Tomei is a “helicopter parent” who doesn’t believe in meat, sugar, or discipline, whereas her father is “old school” and has no bridle on his tongue or sensitivity toward political correctness. Crystal is one of those dads who has put his dreams and ambitions above everything else, having no idea that he has figuratively missed his daughter’s childhood. He gives a great little speech, telling Tomei how heartbreaking it was for him to discover this truth only after she had already grown up and left home for good, never to return—even for Thanksgiving and Christmas. A message to all of us parents today.

Unfortunately, life lessons are sometimes hard learned, and Crystal’s character is not immune. When the movie opens, his career as the long-time radio voice of a local minor league baseball abruptly ends because of his ineptness when it comes to social media (a hilarious scene). But he is still a man of dreams, harboring a boyhood desire to one day announce for a major league team, like the Dodgers, Giants, or Yankees. Selfishly, he uses Tomei’s connections with ESPN to stage an interview for a position as a halfpipe announcer, which ends terribly (but chocked full of more laughs). When Tomei learns about it on national news, she returns home to discover mayhem abounding. The kids are wired on sugar, her anal-retentive, studious daughter (played by adorable Bailee Madison) has plans to attend her first girl-boy party, and the boys are sporting black eyes, among other things. Tomei and Crystal go head to head on how to parent children—a wonderful combination of tearful emotions and funny lines.

One of our favorite scenes was when Midler gives Tomei some words of wisdom on the importance of spending quality time with her husband. I think so many of us forget that. As our busy schedules fill up with kid-related activities, we sometimes forget to have those date nights and couples vacations that are very important to keeping a marriage thriving. We also enjoyed a wonderful family scene of the grandparents playing “kick the can” with the kids in the backyard, slipping and sliding in the rain and mud. But mostly, we enjoyed seeing reconciliation in a family that had been estranged for far too long. They all loved each other, but a break-down in communication and a culmination of unhealed hurts over the years had kept them apart.

Another message to all of us—don’t let the past rob you of the love and companionship of family and friends. It isn’t worth it. Life is precious, and we shouldn’t waste a single day! Do not be dismayed—the Lord can send His message of love and grace through a funny, secular film starring someone as crazy and zany as Billy Crystal or Bette Midler. I can attest that this movie touched my husband and me in a profound way.

Parental Guidance is definitely a movie to add to the family dvd collection. I’m sure it will see a lot of air time in the Friday family for many years to come. Make sure your give it a look-see and enjoy a great movie experience!