Monday, July 29, 2013

Book Review - The Picture of Dorian Gray

http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/674604925
I've always wanted to read this classic, and wasn't disappointed. Oscar Wilde was a talented man, to say the least! Here's my quick review on Goodreads:

At first this book seems eerie and morbid, but as I got further along into it, I realized it was a very good study on the destructive power sin has on mankind. The enemy is portrayed cleverly in the character of Lord Henry who lures and entices Dorian Gray to live for himself and the pleasures of the day, valuing the freedom of youth and earthly beauty above all things. Dorian latches hold of this temptation and spirals down into a life where a wake of innocent victims trail behind. Yes, sin has its momentary pleasure, but judgment and death are there waiting to claim what must be paid. This truth stares Dorian in the face both literally and figuratively in the portrait that reveals his awaiting fate. Actually, you could use this story as a format for a bible study to illustrate the power and preciousness of what the Savior did for us on the cross.


Varsity Cheerleading - It is a sport!

My daughter, Rachel, a Walton High
varsity competition cheerleader
When I was a cheerleader in the late 70s, cheerleading was really an activity based on popularity, beauty, and who was the most limber. What I mean by most limber, is that one needed to be able to master a cartwheel, round-off and finish it off with a split all the way to the floor with no bent knee. Then there were the jumps that followed each cheer - a spread eagle and a hurkie at the very least, following by a winning smile. Only one girl on our squad could do a back handspring and that was because she taught herself on the trampoline. The rest of us didn't have the courage to even try - it seemed almost impossible!

But now, in order to be a varsity cheerleader at many large high schools, gymnastic tumbling is obligatory. The cartwheel split is passe and the hurkie is no more (it has actually been altered to a front jump that looks a bit strange to my mind). Back handsprings are nothing to the varsity cheerleader these days, and the tuck (standing back flip) has become standard. Now, ambitious cheerleaders work toward their front-punch (running front flip), lay-out (back flip in an extended position), and full (full twist in the air).

Wow, how times have changed! "What in the world has happened?" many mothers of wannabe cheerleaders say. "It isn't fair! My child can't do those flips in the air, etc.!"

Well "hello," my child couldn't either, but with the dawn of competitive cheerleading, good coaches can teach ANYONE to tumble. My daughter isn't the most limber girl on her team and has had back issues to work through (not to mention a broken finger, sprained wrist, and sprained shoulder!), but she has worked her little behind off on her tumbling skills. Not to mention, mom and dad have driven her many times (and far away when gas prices were at their peak!) to tumbling and cheer classes where she worked on her skills week after week. It isn't easy and takes time and hard work, and then there is the financial commitment, all of which go with the territory. Why? Because cheerleading has become a sport!

Yes, there are big, flirty smiles, dance moves, pom poms, shorts skirts, ponytails and bows, and drama of course (from both moms and girls), but the athleticism required for the modern cheerleader requires much more today than when I was young. First, there is strength (lifting girls above the head!), endurance, great cardio durability, tenacity, and perseverance. Then there is the element of fear that one must get over. Falling and being dropped and having a pulled muscle, etc., are part of the game, but if a girl loves cheerleading, it will all be worth it. Personally, I have seen how the sport has built my daughter's confidence level and has brought with it great friendships and the ability to be part of an athletic team.

As a mother, and not just a former high school cheerleader, I absolutely love everything about cheerleading. In particular, I have really enjoyed seeing it develop into a full-fledged sport that is team building, fun, and entertaining for the spectator. There are some who want to bring it back down to the popularity/beauty contest/activity of the past, but I sure hope these people aren't successful. The girls who work hard and hone their skills should be rewarded for their efforts every bit as much as a quarterback or point guard is rewarded for their hard work and ability on the football field and basketball court.

So here's to cheerleading! Yay team! As we say at Walton High, "Go Raiders!"

It's All About the Music!

Summer is almost over and school looms ahead for the Friday children. The oldest goes back to UGA and the other two are at Walton High. My son, Braxton, is a senior this year and is one of four drum majors for the band.
 

Band has become this boy's life. I don't think I've ever seen another human more in love with music and marching than
Braxton Friday. A week at drum major camp in Indianapolis and then another week of band camp in Lagrange, GA, have convinced him that perhaps this is a career he might want to pursue. Just this weekend, he and some of his band geek friends went to a DCI (that's Drum Corp International) competition at the Dome and entered what he described as band heaven! Mainly because there was a band that marched to all the Les Miz tunes. 

It's a whole different world from the one I knew in high school. For me, it was
cheerleading, clothes, and boys, not necessarily in that order. But for him, it's all about music. 

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Chicken Francaise with Linguini - Delicious!

Another delicious chicken dish loved by all. With butter, garlic, lemon juice, and a bit of sour cream, it wasn't hard to make this recipe a winner. Try it and let me know what you think.

Chicken Francaise with Linguini
1 regular package of linguini, cooked and drained
3-4 chicken breasts cut in half and pounded thin. (I put mine in a plastic bag and pound with the end of my rolling pin.)
1 egg beaten, placed in a small bowl
Small bowl of 1 cup each of flour and planko - add a bit of garlic salt, black pepper, and a few dashes of Cayenne. Stir together with a wire whisk
Olive oil in a large pan (about a quarter inch deep)

Heat the olive oil to sizzling and keep the heat high so the meat doesn't soak up the oil. Dip each piece of meat into the egg, then the flour mixture and cook on each side until brown and done. I sprinkle a bit of garlic salt and pepper on each side while cooking. Drain on paper towels.

To make sauce, heat over the stove:

1 stick of salted butter
2 T olive oil
1/4 cup of lemon juice
1 tsp dried basil
1/4 tsp garlic salt
1/8 tsp black pepper
dash of Cayenne
1 small container of sour cream
1 extra large garlic clove, crushed
Mix together well over medium heat, but make sure cream doesn't curdle. Add the garlic last and cook a bit more, adjusting salt and pepper if needed.

Mix sauce over cooked linguini, tossing well and making sure to reserve a bit to cover the meat. Slice the chicken and place over the linguini, drizzling remaining sauce on top. Add some scallions and shaved Parmesan cheese for the finishing touch. You might want to place in a hot oven for a few minutes before serving. Enjoy!

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Yummy Orange Chicken

Panda Express, watch out! I just made my own orange chicken tonight, and the entire family loved it! Tastier than take out, cheaper, and healthier too, plus it was a lot of fun. Try this recipe and enjoy!

Orange Chicken Recipe:
3 or more large chicken breasts cut in bite sized pieces
1 egg, beaten
small bowl of flour
small bowl of planko
olive oil

Salt and pepper meat then put in egg mixture and dredge through flour and planko. Fry in batches in really hot olive oil, browning on both sides. You may need to change the oil between each batch. Remove meat and drain on paper towels.

Cook the rice as you prepare the orange sauce. I made white long grain.

Cook in a sauce pan:
1 1/2 c water
1/2 c orange juice
1/2 c vinegar (I used white wine bc that's what I had)
1 c brown sugar, plus a bit more for taste
4 T soy sauce - a bit more or less for taste
1 tsp ground ginger
several shakes of garlic salt
several shakes of black pepper
Cayenne pepper to taste (I did 2 large pinches)
Several good shakes of gravy flour to thicken
2 spring onions, chopped
Cook to a consistency that is to your liking
(You can see I don't follow recipes exactly!)

Dump chicken back in and mix in with sauce. Cook for a few more minutes until it has the consistency you like. Sprinkle with a few more green onions and Serve with white rice. Enjoy!

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

The Great Gatsby

Read my latest movie review at christianfictiononlinemagazine.com. Here is the link:
At the Movies - The Great Gatsby

Enjoy a good flick with Leo taking the helm as the doomed Jay Gatsby.

Baz Luhrmann’s The Great Gatsby is all the talk this summer, a must-see blockbuster based on the book written by the renown F. Scott Fitzgerald. Almost every American teenager has been forced to read the novel in either middle or high school, sparking a fascination for the “Roaring Twenties.” It was a decade of decadence that is still shrouded in mystery—from the excessive wealth and frenzy for strong drink and debauchery, the freedom of women from the corset, long skirts, and carefully coiffed up-dos, and of course, the introduction to the flapper gals with their short bobs, drop-waist dresses, and gyrating dance moves. And then there is Leonardo DiCaprio playing the lead role, reprising Robert Redford’s rendition of the infamous Jay Gatsby. Redford was wonderful in the 1974 version with Mia Farrow, but Leo is perfect, fantastic, wonderful. He really is one of America’s finest actors, displaying a depth of emotion and intensity unmatched by others, in my opinion. His looks are still boyish, though he has matured since his Titanic days. Youth, romance, hopefulness, believing in a world where “love conquerors all” exudes from his eyes and smile—it can’t be helped. The mother in me wants to rescue him from certain doom, while the romantic side longs to be swept off my feet. There is a fascination for the iconic Leo that surpasses explanation. He is special, unique, and extraordinarily appealing.
            Putting Leo aside, Luhrmann’s cinematic feast of stunning costumes, Newport mansions with lush gardens, exquisite food that makes the tongue salivate, and wild parties that exude a strange level of order, all adds to the allure. The entire film drips with color, depth, and texture that defy anything I have seen on screen. It’s like a ten course gourmet meal in a fine French restaurant, complete with a plethora of rich, juicy meats, savory sauces, and frothy desserts. Friends who have seen it in 3D claim the experience is worth the extra ticket price and wearing those hideous hipster glasses. Even in 2D, it is a must-see film.
            As for the story, I wasn’t as enamored as some, and to be honest, I’m not a huge fan of the book, although I acknowledge its importance. I never “got” the love story between Gatsby and Daisy (played by Carey Mulligan), even though there is plenty of heat coming from DiCaprio. Even the Redford/Farrow film duo left me wanting more. I guess I realized from the beginning their romance wasn’t based on reality, but was rooted in some convoluted fantasy lodged deep in Gatsby’s mind.
            So why the attraction for this story? I believe it is because of Gatsby’s love for the American dream and his tenacity in making it his own, despite the dire consequences. He represents a generation of poor US citizens born in the twentieth century to immigrant parents, having a first shot at the excesses of American wealth. Many of them were intelligent, bright, and industrious, but were held back by their foreign roots. Like Gatsby, they changed their names, altered their speech and diction, and learned to dress and enjoy the finer things in life. Some studied and worked hard, saved, and built a solid future for their families, keeping a firm hold on their integrity. But not so for Gatsby. One look at the beautiful, wealthy Daisy, and suddenly a different set of rules was needed. What she represented is what every immigrant’s son wants—legitimacy, respect, esteem.
            Surrounded by rich, refined suitors, Daisy claimed to love Gatsby, who was just a poor soldier-boy during WWI. He believed her, hoping their love would enable her to wait for his return from the front. But practicality won the day, and she married Tom Buchanan (played by Joel Edgerton) and his vast fortune, settling for a boring life of luxury built on a bed of heartache.
            Instead of moving on, Gatsby held fast to the dream, believing Daisy still loved him. Compromising what integrity he had, he moved quickly and quietly into her sphere of influence, hoping she would wander back into his life. Bootlegging, gambling, financial fraud, and perhaps prostitution are intimated as sources of his meteoric rise from obscurity to vast wealth. Nothing was known about him—he was a man without a past, or so it seemed, which birthed a cloud of rumors, shrouding him in mystery and intrigue. His excessive, wild parties were unexplained and his notable absence made their nightly habit almost bizarre. But as the film’s narrator, Nick Carraway (played by Tobey Maguire), discovers, all of Gatsby’s excesses were for one purpose: to regain Daisy’s love.
            Ironically, Tom Buchanan has what Gatsby wants, but has no revelation of the preciousness of the prize. Men like him, born into wealth and privilege, take their lives for granted, casting off their Daisys for fleeting sexual encounters with married floozies from the opposite side of the tracks, such as Myrtle Wilson (played by Isla Fischer). It’s a reminder to us all that fallen man is never satisfied with what he has—his fascination with sin and its temporary pleasures are as destructive to him as Gatsby’s fantasies of a respectable life with Daisy. To a man like Tom Buchanan, the world of a romantic dreamer like Jay Gatsby is a fabricated house of cards, ready to fall at the first gust of a strong wind. History proved him right, and many who trusted in the quick, easy wealth of that age were destined for a mighty fall. The Great Depression followed the stock market crash in 1929, bringing that era to an end. Death and destruction were its author, as the art department so cleverly portrayed in the film. On the banister of Gatsby’s grand home were two long, fat, golden snakes twisted tightly around the railing. It makes me wonder whether the Lord has Bible scholars working behind the scenes on movie sets in order to send subtle messages to the viewer.
            If all this is true, why would Nick Carraway consider a man like Jay Gatsby, great? Carraway lives in a small, modest cottage, works hard at a job he hates, studies so he can advance in his career, all the while longing to be a writer. Carraway represents the man who plays by the world’s rules, obediently following the safe path, being careful not to be lured into the danger of the risk takers, fanatical entrepreneurs, and foolish dreamers like Gatsby. But the truth is that Carraway admires Gatsby, as so many of us do when we hear stories of great men who rose from the dregs of poverty to become lauded captains of industry. They are men who will stop at nothing to get what they want, who will never stop hoping and believing in what is in their heart, even though the reality of being exposed as a fool looms before them. Men like Gatsby have a hope that defies logic, a hope that sets aflame the hidden desires of some, while striking the fear of God in others.
            *** SPOILER ALERT ***
            Even though Gatsby was murdered in retaliation for a crime he didn’t commit, forgotten and forsaken, bankrupt, destined for obscurity, a man with no legacy other than his relentless convictions, he believed in something with all his heart and never allowed himself to give up. He believed Daisy loved him and not Tom, that she would come back to him, that she would marry him and help erase the past as easily as an eraser to a chalkboard. But it was all an elusive dream in Gatsby’s mind, like the flickering green light at the end of her dock which he had often tried to cup in his hands.
            What a sad story for many of us, but not for Jay Gatsby. As the fatal bullet entered his heart, he hears the ringing of the telephone and gazes upon that flickering green light in the distance. Daisy was calling him after all, she did love him, she was his. He sinks down into death, believing he has won, but of course he hasn’t. It was Carraway on the line, warning him of the destruction to come. Daisy’s established name and old-money wealth are like a mirage in the desert, as elusive as a lottery ticket missing that one crucial number. Gatsby’s pursuit of her and all she represented brought about his ultimate demise.
            There are so many lessons to be learned from The Great Gatsby, but perhaps the most important is the notion that there are two types of people in the world, easily separated based on how they might answer this lingering question: Is it better to have never tried because you believe the prize cannot be won, or to have tried and believed to the very end that success was yours? We know how Gatsby would answer.

Friday, July 5, 2013

Happy Birthday, Rachel - Sweet 16!

A fun time of celebration!
Yesterday was my youngest child's Sweet 16 Birthday! She's our Fourth of July baby - born in the UK. Can't believe she's grown up into such an awesome young lady. We had a fun day, despite the rain, with dinner at Olive Garden and our own fireworks.

Happy Birthday, Rachel!

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Happy Fourth of July!

What a wonderful country we live in! Despite all the problems going on in the world, how comforting to know that God has blessed us with this great nation to call home. Yes, it is not perfect, and yes, there are things that need to change, but what better place on earth is there to live than the Great US of A? I've lived in Europe and have traveled all over the world and have to say, there isn't a better country than America. It is blessed by God despite its sins and shortcomings! Just considering our birth is evidence that the Lord's hand was in our inception. And the fact that we survived a civil war and other world wars and emerged stronger is greater proof still. I'm proud to be an American and proud to call this country home!

Also, it's my youngest daughter, Rachel's, birthday. She was born on the 4th of July in merry ole England - how's that for irony? Today she is sweet 16. Happy Birthday Rachel!